Frequently Asked Questions

  • Our time together will begin with a simple greeting, followed by a conversation about our impending time together—power neutral—unless otherwise negotiated. I will immediately be assessing your state of mind and ensuring your comfort.

    After we review what our session will entail, considerations, limits, and rules, we will enter into our contained power exchange. You will present yourself to me as my subject. I will take our previous conversations and your interests into account as I guide you through our play. My full attention will be on you, evaluating your responses to each of my actions by reading your body language, listening to what you say, and encouraging your fantasies. My goal is to bring you into a headspace where you can completely let go. The better I can do this, the deeper your submission and feelings of devotion can grow.

    I welcome people of different backgrounds and experience levels. Come with an open mind, ready to immerse yourself in a power exchange with me.

    I encourage all—whether it's your first time seeing a Dominatrix or me in particular—to schedule a phone consult. Email me or fill out my booking form and I’ll take it from there!

  • The best place to start is by filling out my session request form.

    If you have specific questions or a scenario you’d like to discuss, I offer phone consults with a $75 tribute.

  • You can get in touch via scheduled, tributed phone calls or via NiteFlirt. Or interact with my online presence on X.

    I don't have a fan site and I am not in the business of creating custom videos. I won't get on a video call with you unless you are a trusted submissive.

    As a New York City Mistress, my focus is around creating immersive in-person experiences. I'm kept quite busy with Femdom sessions in New York, travel, and a busy personal life.

  • There are two reasons I recommend a two hour visit with your Dominatrix, at a minimum:

    1. Most requests involve guiding my submissive through a transformative experience. To enter and exit an altered state of mind takes delicate care and often some experimentation—both of which should not be rushed.

      Some people have specific fetishes or interests that are purely aesthetic or sensation-based. In these instances, a shorter session may be appropriate.

    2. I prioritize my schedule for multi-hour BDSM experiences. I put a similar amount of mental energy into our playtime, regardless of length. With a shorter session, the outcome—both in how deep we can go and the total tribute—will be less satisfactory. Therefore, I will work a one hour session into my schedule when it suits me. If you are dead set on seeing me, but carving out time is your limiting factor, offer an additional tribute to be prioritized.

  • Yes! There are myriad sensations and emotions one can feel in BDSM play. Physical pain is just one. Emotional pain, for instance, is another.

    Most people I see are drawn to me because I take a softer, subtler approach to Femdom. Seduction and inspiring devotion are two of my favorite and most powerful methods of contol.

  • If it's on the list on my about page, then yes, it’s part of my offering. If it's on my hard limits list (below), then no. If you can't find it listed in either place, you may ask via email or in the session request form.

  • Hard limits are things I will not engage in at all, and include: medical roleplay, diaper play, FTT/scat play, Roman showers, wrestling. I will not be exposed to your blood in a session. I do not switch.

  • Roleplay is a fun and exciting avenue for people to sink into a power exchange, and I enjoy playing in these niche spaces. We will discuss any roleplay in depth after you send a deposit. If you have an involved roleplay in mind that you’d like me to review before we book a session, book a consult call or tribute for me to review it in writing.

    Some roles that I enjoy playing: Mommy, step-mom, MILF, corrupting older woman, seductress, boss, therapist, black widow, and femme fatale. I will not be your doctor or nurse.

  • I work with a variety of other providers. I can pair us up based on what I know about you, or you can suggest another provider. I love when my submissives put another provider on my radar.

    Of course I have lovers and friends who I work with for cuckolding and forced-bi scenes. These are two favorites of mine!

  • First, check your spam! Unfortunately, my messages often end up in spam. I try to respond in 72 hours, but sometimes I’m busy and it takes a bit longer.

    It’s also possible your submission wasn’t worthy of a response. In that case, try again.

  • My New York City dungeon incall space is in Chinatown (bordering Soho). I have access to others studios and dungeons in NYC, as long as you cover the rental fee.

  • If I don't have it listed in my touring details, you are welcome to email me and ask. I travel frequently to Stamford, Boston, Burlington, Albany, Rochester, Long Island, Philadelphia, Washington, D.C., and Pittsburgh.

    If you want me to visit your city, inquire as to how you can sponsor a visit.

  • It's possible but unlikely. Expect the tribute to increase in order for it to be worthwhile for me to reorganize my day.

  • Deposits are required for in-person meetings and scheduled phone calls. The deposit is non-refundable and covers a number of things: the time spent scheduling and coordinating our session, the cost of the space, and my time that I will reserve for you.

    Deposits can be paid via Cashapp, Venmo, various cryptocurrencies, or via Throne. For those who wish to leave no trail, I will accept gift cards that you can purchase with cash.

  • Deposits can be applied to a future session if you cancel with at least 72 hours notice. Less than 72 hours notice, and the deposit is forfeited. Less than 24 hours and I will be reticent to schedule with you again without an additional tribute.

    In the rare event I must cancel our session, I will make every attempt to move it to a date that accommodates your schedule. If we are unable to find a date that works, I will offer a refund.

  • Screening is a way for me to make my job safer by verifying you. Having your verified legal name allows me to ensure you are safe for me to see. Collecting this information deters bad actors from seeing me. I value your privacy and will guard it with the same intent as I protect my own.

  • You may, but expect to tribute in order to show me that you are serious. You can wait for me to give you an amount, but it’s best to preemptively send before reaching out.

  • I understand that this is the mindset you want to have for your Mistress. Knowing this is a goal means that I will purposely push you to demonstrate commitment to my happiness and satisfaction. I will ask for things, I will challenge you. What starts out as requests will turn into demands. But this happens over time. Anyone petitioning to show devotion must take a long view. Your true intentions will be shown through consistency over time.

  • I fiercely guard my energy and am selective about the people I share space with. Any submissive who serves me in a personal capacity has gotten to know me over time and tributes with money and/or equivalent services.

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